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Why not use the organizations that your
hard earned tax dollars have paid for! |
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This
site www.PublicAdoption.com promotes public governmental adoptions.
The boarder
links that
appear on his
site are
generally
related to private adoptions!
This web site
or any government
agency does
not
endorse
these advertisers in
any way.
The Google boarder links can be useful for Private vs. Public comparison purposes.
Check out the other informational web sites at
www.B-2e.com |
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Step by step process social services took
with me. Explained in detail-with commentary. |
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From the
Contact info and Web
Links page tabs on
the site navigation bar above; view the web site
and or
documents for your State. After checking this information,
contact your states agency that
has jurisdiction in your local
area (in the case of California, it was the Human Services
Department
for the county in which I reside). After you
decide to proceed, sign up for the state required
training to
become adoptive parents. In my case California basically
requires the same training
that is required for state certified
foster parents. This training usually runs a few months.
Typical information covered is parental
and developmental issues that parents face day to day,
certification
in CPR and first aid, as well as other topics. |
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Upon completion of training a
report or summary is generated detailing your family and home
life. In California this is called a 'Home Study':! This large
folder is completed by a social worker at no cost to you.
In this report you will also state the acceptable criteria for
child placement. This criteria includes issues such as
unacceptable medical conditions and or mental issues. Your
acceptable conditions of age, sex, and racial background are
also strictly honored. The relationship or situation with the
known birth parent or parents is also typically considered in
your criteria spelled out in your home study. |
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Attention: As you
can imagine, the time that you wait between completion of
training and when you first have the option to consider a
specific child for adoption is often directly related to the
criteria that you specify for your child.
As you can imagine, certain profiles are more frequently
introduced into the adoption system. In my case I was open to
all races, but I specified that I would only consider healthy
girls less than two years of age with no mental or
behavioral issues. I was
contacted for consideration of my daughter even before my home
study was complete. My adopted little girl is pictured on the
left above. Please note: Your acceptable
limits must be your actual, realistic limits. The system tends
to be geared to presenting the adoptive parent with children
that are close to your minimally acceptable criteria. The
social worker is often forced to present you with this situation
due to the simple laws of supply and demand. You can be
tasked with sole searching as you balance your ultimate desires
with issues of unacceptably long waiting periods for parents
with very restrictive criteria. The opposite can also be a
problem, if adoptive parents set unrealistically open criteria
that excludes no children from consideration. This can result in
an inappropriate child placement. Remember no one is best served
by an unacceptable placement, particularly the child who cannot
be bounced from home to home. |
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When a child that is ready for
adoption exits in the system that meets your criteria and you
are next
on the list, you are immediately contacted for
consideration. Children are considered by you on a
case by case
basis, one at a time, to be fair to the children.
If at any time prior to the
adoption
becoming final you have critical problems with a
particular child's case, you owe it to everyone
involved to
raise a hand and terminate the process as soon as possible.
There is no penalty to
rejecting a case.
You will simply be put back in line for the next child that is
available to you
meeting your criteria. After you review all available
information pertaining to the child's case,
you will meet
the child which is typically in the care of a county foster
parent. |
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If after several visits you decide to
proceed with the adoption, the child is placed in your home. For
a California state required minimum trial period typically, of
six months. During this time you act as the child's parents. For
public government adoptions, in the state of California, you act
as the child's legal state designated foster parent. It is
sometimes referred to as a Fost-adopt. This is because
technically the child is legally in the custody of the state
until you assume full parental rights. |
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During the six month trial
period you will have a few visits from a social worker. The
workers confirm that all is going well with the placement and
answer any questions you or your child might have. Social
services has been there for me providing any assistance I have
needed. Even after the adoption is final, the government
is there for your assistance. You will not be left hanging on
your own. |
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After the trial period is over and all
adoptive issues are worked out, all paperwork is complete, the
adoption is finalized through the court system.
With the stroke of a pen
you now have a new precious addition to your family. |
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Please reference the
other pages of this site for more information.
(Click on
the desired subject tab at the top of this page) |
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There is no time like now to start the
adoption process!
There is no risk and you can drop
out at
anytime, with no penalty.
Take advantage of your US
government.
Make that call now!! |
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Please read this disclosure/disclaimer
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